Remembering Dr. Ruth Westheimer:
A Trailblazer in Sexual Education Passes Away at 96
The world has lost a pioneering figure in sexual education and therapy with the passing of Dr. Ruth Westheimer at the age of 96. Known affectionately as Dr. Ruth, she leaves a legacy that profoundly influenced how society discusses and understands human sexuality.
Early Life and Education
Dr. Ruth Karola Westheimer was born in Frankfurt, Germany, on June 4, 1928. She was sent to Switzerland at the age of ten to escape the horrors of the Holocaust, a traumatic separation that saw her family perish in Nazi concentration camps. Dr. Ruth’s resilience and determination saw her through despite this tragic beginning. She moved to Palestine in 1945, where she joined the Haganah, an underground Jewish military organization. After being injured in the 1948 Arab-Israeli War, she moved to France, where she studied psychology at the Sorbonne and later earned her Doctorate of Education (Ed.D.) from Columbia University in New York.
Career and Contributions
Dr. Ruth’s career began in academia and clinical practice, but she soon ventured into media, where her candid and straightforward approach to sexual education found a broad audience. She first gained fame with her radio show, “Sexually Speaking,” aired in 1980. Her unique style—frank, humorous, and compassionate—resonated with listeners, making her a household name.
Dr. Ruth was a trailblazer, breaking down taboos surrounding sex and relationships. Her ability to discuss intimate topics openly and without judgment helped many people feel more comfortable seeking information and advice on sexual matters. She expanded her reach through television, books, and public speaking, becoming an advocate for sexual health and education worldwide.
Personal Life
Despite her public persona, Dr. Ruth was known for being fiercely private about her personal life. She was married three times and had two children, Miriam and Joel, with her third husband, Manfred Westheimer, whom she married in 1961. Her family and personal experiences deeply influenced her empathetic approach to therapy and education.
Legacy
Dr. Ruth’s impact on society is immeasurable. She not only educated millions but also empowered them to embrace their sexuality without shame. Her contributions to the field of sexual education and her advocacy for open dialogue about sex have left an indelible mark.
Her work has been recognized with numerous awards and honors, including honorary doctorates and accolades from various institutions for her contributions to public health and education. She remained active well into her later years, continuing to write, speak, and engage with audiences worldwide.
Dr. Ruth Westheimer’s death marks the end of an era, but her legacy will continue to inspire and educate future generations. Her courage to speak openly about topics often considered taboo and her unwavering dedication to improving sexual health and education will be remembered and cherished. She was a true pioneer whose life and work profoundly shaped our understanding of human sexuality.
Here are 20 facts about Dr. Ruth
- She was born on June 4, 1928, in Germany.
- Her full name was Karola Ruth Siegel.
- She survived the Holocaust after being sent to Switzerland in a children’s home that became an orphanage.
- She immigrated to the United States after living in Israel and France.
- Dr. Ruth received a Master’s degree in sociology and a Ph.D. in education from Columbia University.
- She became famous as a radio sex therapist in 1980 with her show, “Sexually Speaking.”
- Dr. Ruth was known for her candid discussions about sex and her petite stature, standing at 4 feet 7 inches tall.
- She authored several books on sex and sexuality.
- Dr. Ruth was a sniper in the Haganah, the Jewish military organization in Palestine.
- She taught at Yale University and Princeton University.
- Her television show, “Ask Dr. Ruth,” further increased her popularity.
- Dr. Ruth was a grandmother who often discussed balancing her professional and personal life.
- She received numerous awards throughout her career, including an honorary doctorate from Hebrew Union College.
- Dr. Ruth was a strong advocate for sexual education and believed it should be taught from a young age.
- She has appeared on several major TV shows, including “The Tonight Show” and “Late Night with David Letterman.”
- Despite her openness about sex, she maintained a private personal life.
- Dr. Ruth became a cultural icon, known for her wit and wisdom on taboo topics.
- She was also a professor at New York University.
- Dr. Ruth’s approach to sex therapy emphasized communication and mutual respect.
- Her impact on the field of sex therapy and her contributions to public discourse about sex remain influential.